The Toxic Relationship Detox | Kaise Pahchane Toxic(zahrili) Relationship | Toxic Relationship kya hota hai?

Relation Me Bahut se RED FLAG(ishara) aese Point.
Jisko Ap Waqt Rahte Agr Pahchan Jate Hain to isse Bacha Ja Sakta Hai  
To Aj inhi Sab Ke Bare Me Detail Se Bat Karte Hain 

Agr ap Toxic Relationship ka matlab samjhte hain abusing(gali) to afsos ap galat hai jis tarha se aaj ke samay me dating karna asan hota ja raha hai to 

khud ko Toxic Relationship ke truma(sadma)se bachana utna hi mushkil hota hai

To ap kaise pahchan sakte hain ap ya apka koi apna kisi Toxic Relationship me
fasa hai.??

Sabse pahle to ye clear kar lete hain ki Toxic Relationship ka matlab kya hota hai
zaruri nhi kisi rishte me mental or physical abuse(marpeet)hone par hi wo rishta Toxic ho,

Iski defination bahut simple hai
agr apka partner apki mansik shanti ko nuksaan pahucha raha hai 

Ya ap uske sath apne emotion ko Dead hota hua mahsus kar rahe hain
to wo ek Toxic Relationship hai 

Aj ke time pe kisi ka x hona ye aam bat hai or samjhdar insan wo hai jo kisi purani bat 

ko na karna chahe akhir koi bhi admi janne ke bad bar bar wo bat karna nhi chahta hai 

Lekin agr koi bar bar apne x se apko compear karta hai
to ye bhi ek Toxic Relationship hai 

Toxic insan bahut jaldi apne Relation ko socially display(sabko batana) ya abhi apko mile hue kuch 
hi time hua hai or apka partner apne social media pe apke bare me post kar raha hai to aesa insan bhi ekk tarha ka toxic ho sakta hai 

LOVE BOMBING(pyar ki barish)ab sochne me to ye love bombing achi hai

Lekin aesa karne wale log bahut Toxic ho sakte hain
aksar log ate hi bahut zada pyar dikhane lagte hain 

Apse bar bar pyar ka izhar krenge darasal aese logo ko pyar ka sahi matlab nhi pta hota 
unko lagta hai pyar lofzo me hai lekin jab apka rawayya thoda sakht hota hai 

To aese logo ka pyar bhi khatm ho jata hai kyu ke pyar me kuch 
boundaries(hade)hoti hain unko samjhne wala un bato manne wala insan hi pyar nibha pata 

Aksar insan manipulation(baat ko badalna) agr ap unse koi shikayat karte hai

To wo baat ko badal kar apse hi sawal karne lagta hai 
jisse jo topic hota hai wo change ho jata hai wo hazar bate apko bolta rahenge or agar jawab me apne kuch kah diya fir khud ko victim bataenge or ap ban jaoge mujrim

Ek aur Toxic insan ki pahchan hoti hai aesa insan apni sari cheez ko bahut acha batata hai

Chahe wo cheez socially galt ho but apne agar usse cum bhi kuch kia ho
to wo usko bahut hi ganda batata hai darasal aese logo ko lagta hai

Wahi is dunya ke sabse ache insan sirf wahi aur unke log hain
baki ap apke reletve is nothing

Aese logo ko pta bhi thek se nhi hota 
apke dost kaun hain or kaise hain aese log apne imagination me rahte hain

Unko lagta hai wo jo sochte hain ya koi ek part jante hain wahi sach hai
aese Toxic insan ko jab koi rishta khatm karna hota hai to wo rishte ko

Ganda kar ke khatm karta hai fir chahe wo apka janne wala ho ya nhi

Uske andar itna zaher hota hai wo sab kuch bhool jata hai
wo bat karne ka tarika bhi bhool jata hai or jaisa wo andar se hota hai us waqt Waisa hokar bat karta hai 

Is liye best hai ap Toxic behaviar ke red flag shuruati stage pe pahchan le 

Take ap kisi jhuti ummeed me apna waqt zaya na kare 
agr ap bhi kisi aesi problem ko face kar rahe hain to fauran usse nikal jaiye 

khud ki life ko heal kare or jitni jaldi ho sake 
is Toxic Relation ko bhool jae..